Monday, November 30, 2009

Kati, Kati Everywhere


OK, not really. But I'm over at the island talking chemistry (we'll be talking chemistry all three days I'm there).

I think I'm also going to be at Babbling About Books today (Kate's place) with a review of Nora Roberts' Bed of Roses. It's not up yet, but check back later today. ETA: It's up. Go see!

Sunday, November 29, 2009

Movie Palooza - 3 mini reviews

I saw three movies this weekend! Imagine that.

1- Rachel Getting Married - As most of you know, I spent last holiday season making my way through what I thought would be Oscar nominated movies. This was one I didn't see. My brother-in-law, Brad, really loved it, and I kept meaning to see it, but there were other movies I wanted to see more. Anyway, it's now on Starz On Demand, so I finally saw it. The set-up is a simple one: Kym has been released from rehab in order to attend her sister, Rachel's, wedding. They are from a well-to-do family, but definitely an eclectic one. The wedding seems to have an Asian flavor, and Rachel's intended is a musician, as is Rachel's father (or maybe he's in the business), so it's an unusual group of people at the wedding. Needless to say, it's a somewhat tough atmosphere for Kym to come into. There are strangers everywhere, Emma, Rachel's uptight best friend is trying to run interference, Kym hooks up with the best man after a particularly strange first meeting at an NA meeting. On top of that, there are many undercurrents in the family. You see, Kym accidentally killed her little brother, Ethan, while babysitting him while she was high. Kym has been an addict most of her life, and she struggles with her guilt, but also her need to have everything as it has been, which is all about her. Rachel, for her part, is completely furious that Kym is trying to steal her thunder during her special weekend. And yet, at the same time, the girls love each other so much. I can describe this movie in one word: uncomfortable. The interactions are painful and you just never know what is going to happen next, as Kym is tremendously unpredictable. The entire movie made me squirm, as those socially uncomfortable moments do. And yet, the movie is gorgeously acted. Anne Hathaway scored an Oscar nomination for this movie. And it was really well deserved. It is a role that is unlike any I've ever seen her play. She's at turns truculent, antagonistic, resentful, sweet, thoughtful, and always damaged. The movie is directed by Jonathan Demme, and it is shot almost like a home movie. It feels very intimate, and almost Altman-like. There were times when I wanted the camera to go to black rather than experience the discomfort. At the end, though, all I could think was how powerful the movie is, like a snapshot into this incredibly damaged, yet overtly loving family. Final grade: B+

2- Bride Wars - This movie was on HBO On Demand. I have a thing about "women behaving badly". I hate all movies where I think women come off like shrews. And in seeing the trailer for this movie, I thought, "Absolutely no way. I hate these types of movies." Turns out, I was right. I watched it mostly because I love movies that focus on weddings. I love seeing the decorations, clothes, vision for the weddings - it's the event planner thing. Anyway, the set up is that Liv and Emma are best friends, who have dreamed of their weddings all their lives. The go to the most famous wedding planner in New York to have her plan their weddings. They both want to get married in June, at the Plaza Hotel. In a clerical error, they are both booked the same day at the Plaza. Of course, this won't work, one of the brides will need to move their date, but neither is willing to budge. This sets up some very, very bad behavior on both bride's parts: swapping hair dye so that Kate Hudson's character has blue hair, and ensuring that Anne Hathaway's character ends up with a blood orange spray tan. SIGH. What to say about this movie? I was right, both women behave SO badly, making me embarrassed for my entire gender. The weddings themselves were lovely. But it didn't make up for the terrible behavior, poorly conceived plot, and incredibly overacted script. It's a bad movie, friends. There was not a single cute thing about it, except perhaps the guy who played Kate Hudson's groom. He was cute. That's it though. Final grade: D-

3- The Blind Side - I went to see this movie in the movie theater. I went to see it because I love me some football, and I'd read the New York Times article which inspired the book The Blind Side about Baltimore Ravens Offensive Tackle, Michael Oher's extraordinary journey from homelessness to first round draft pick. The movie is about this boy, Michael Oher, ward of the state, homeless, and without hope. He's sent to a small Christian academy because of his athletic ability. He basically survives sleeping occasionally on friend's couches, and by collecting half eaten popcorn bags from the gym in order to survive. One night, he's walking through the rain. It's wintertime, and he's wearing shorts and shivering. It is that night that he meets LeeAnn Touhey. She gets out of the car as her family is driving by, and asks him where he's going. He says he's going to the school gym because it's warm there. She bundles him into the car, takes him home, feeds him, and puts him to bed on her couch. Soon she's buying him clothes, and having him join her family for Thanksgiving. Then she realizes that he has no one. Soon Michael is living with the Touheys. He goes out for spring football, but just doesn't really want to hit anyone. That is, until LeeAnn takes him aside, and explains to him that the football team is like his family (the Touheys) and the quarterback is her. He needs to protect the quarterback. Michael takes to football like nobody's business then. Soon big time college football scouts come calling. And Michael might have a shot at a real future. He just has to get his grades up, in order to qualify for college level football. The Touheys put their resources into hiring Michael a tutor, Miss Sue, who makes it her mission in life to get Michael into school. This movie isn't really about football. It's about one woman's incredible heart, and her drive to get a boy she takes into her home, her heart, and her family moving toward his future. I'll say this, Sandra Bullock was terrific casting. As LeeAnn, she's all brass, and sass, and steel will -- and nothing but love. She's tough, but sweet, and the relationship that she builds with Michael is one that brought tears to my eyes over and over. This is an extraordinary, wonderful story of one family opening it's heart to a boy who had no reason to hope for the future. And a story of that boy drawing strength from the love of a family, and making something of himself. It's such a terrific ride - one I can't recommend enough. Final grade: A

Thursday, November 26, 2009

Wednesday, November 25, 2009

VMI's Ring Figure

Look at my beautiful niece, Rebecca and her boyfriend, Allen at VMI's 2011 Ring Figure dance.

Here's a little history of Ring Figure

The presentation of a VMI class ring, and the formal dance known as Ring Figure that marks the occasion, takes place in November of the Second Class (Junior) year. The event represents an important milestone in the life of a cadet, second only to graduation in importance. Each class is responsible for designing a unique ring, which incorporates symbols significant to the group. The elaborate Ring Figure tradition known to today's cadets dates to the 1920's; prior to that time, rings were received in a much more informal setting.

The Cadets are in their formal uniforms, and their dates all wear white gowns and elbow length gloves. I love the tradition of it.

Aren't they just gorgeous??


ETA: VMI = Virginia Military Institute, a university in Virginia.

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Save the Drama for Your Mama

Wow. The storm clouds are roiling in Romanceland in the last few days. Drama everywhere! Most of it author related. As many who hang in Romanceland know, Harlequin decided to start a vanity press called Harlequin Horizons. They promptly lost their particular status with Romance Writers of America, and have decided to rename this enterprise to deaffiliate it with Harlequin.

First, I'm a reader, and am truly ignorant about the publishing business. I wasn't completely clear about what the big deal was, until I read the thread over at Smart Bitches. And wow, what a thread! Over 800 comments, by some seriously big deal authors, self-published authors and others. And the conversation stayed mostly cogent and respectful, with the exception of one person who just couldn't stop bickering with NFR (Nora-Fucking-Roberts, for those who don't know). Anyway, it's quite a kerfuffle, and one that I'm sure will have long-standing ripples throughout the author community. I don't have a particular opinion on it. More, it's one of those internet trainwreck thingies that I love to be a spectator for.

The second drama stems from a letter that Jane Litte, who is the publisher of the Dear Author blog, received from Romance Writers of America letting her know that she would no longer be eligible for membership in RWA. The reasons cited were that Jane has publically stated that she has no intention of ever publishing a romance, also because of several critical posts on Dear Author, and for #ROMFAIL, which is a feed she does on Twitter after she's read a particularly wretched romance. The point is that RWA has elected not to allow Jane to renew her membership because she has taken actions that are not supportive of the genre.

Mmmkay, I call bullshit on that. First, I will say that I have probably interacted with Jane about three times in my life. Once when I about mowed her down to say hello to author, LB Gregg, at RWA last year. But I visit Dear Author at least 3-4 times a day. I rely on the reviews posted there for recommendations, I avidly read commentary there, as I've always found it to be though provoking and many of the threads honestly teach me a ton about critical reading. I would consider Jane to be a tremendous advocate for the genre. Now, I will say this, I would *never, ever* want to be an author on the receiving end of one of Jane's F reviews. They are painful, and often hilarious to read. And I participated in all of one #ROMFAIL because I find them to be a lot like the American Idol tryout shows -- just painful to witness.

In my teeny-tiny reader's opinion, I think Jane is being disinvited from being a member of RWA because of #ROMFAIL. I think that enough of the membership is aggravated by it that RWA had to take a stand. Do I think they did the right thing? No I don't. I think what they did smacks of McCarthyism. I think they're telling Jane that if she can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all. I think it's a dangerous step to take by RWA, particularly because the letter to Jane did not cite specific examples as to why she was being asked to leave. It has a few vague references.

Part of what is amazing about this genre is the generally intelligent discourse that I've found on the internet regarding what many "outsiders" consider to be a joke. Jane is, in my opinion, a leader in that area. The truth is that RWA needs minds like Jane's, minds that can call a turkey a turkey, helping the genre to improve.

I'm not a member of RWA, nor will I ever be. But having been to last year's conference, I see the value. I understand what makes the organization a tool to many authors.

Like I said, I believe that Romanceland is enhanced by Jane Litte and bloggers like her. And to imply that she in not an advocate for the genre is just bullshit. Was RWA within their rights? Yes. Were they right? I don't think so.

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

The Launch of STS-129


The is the Vehicle Assembly Building at Kennedy Space Center. This is the third largest building in the world. It's 52 stories tall. To give you an idea of size, the stripes on the American flag on the side of the building at the length of two football fields. It took 660 gallons of red and white paint to paint them.



This is a view of the back "high" bay in the VAB. This is the building where the parts of the Shuttle (or rockets) are combined. They use a high and low crane to hoist the apparatuses upright.


Inside the VAB, behind that concrete wall are the remains of STS-107, the Space Shuttle Columbia. NASA asked members of the public to return any pieces of the wreckage that they found. They are stored behind this wall, and can be borrowed by colleges and university (with extensive permissions) to be studied.


The back bay door of the VAB. It takes 45 minutes to raise this door.


This is the backside of the Shuttle. Little known fact, the Space Shuttle is NOT just the orbiter, it's the orbiter, plus the booster rocket (the large orange tank) and the SRBs, all together. The SRBs separate first and return to Earth to be refurbished and used again. The booster rocket burns up in the Earth's atmosphere. After the booster separates, the Shuttle actually inverts and photographs the booster to see if there was any damage. The footage is sent back to NASA for analysis.


I was very fortunate to be among about 200 people who were invited to attend a night viewing. They took us to a spot about 1/4 mile from pad 39A, where the shuttle was waiting. At this point, the wrap around the orbiter, which allows NASA to load in payload and work on the orbiter, was pushed away, and the entire pad was lit by Xenon lights. It was glorious.



59 seconds to launch!

The view of pad 39A from the Banana Creek Viewing Site about 3.5 miles away.

6 seconds before launch

Lift off! God speed, Atlantis!

Airborne!

52 miles up, in less than 13 seconds.

The exhause plumes after the Shuttle had disappeared from sight.

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

To Infinity and Beyond!


I'm crazed this week with the launch on Monday, November 16, so I'm afraid there's no blog love until I get back from Florida -- probably Tuesday or Wednesday of next week.

Y'all behave!

Friday, November 6, 2009

The Return of Rafe MacKade & The Heart of Devin MacKade by Nora Roberts - A Review (-ish)

So, I ended up reading two of the four MacKade brother books by Nora Roberts yesterday. I've read the series before, but it's been years, and I felt like this would be a great chance to revisit one of my favorite author's contemporary series books.

In The Return of Rafe MacKade, the second of the four MacKade brothers, hellions and bad boys all, has come back to town, ten years after the death of his mother and his subsequent abrupt departure from town. In true romance novel fashion, Rafe is now a self-made man, having made money buying and fixing up houses. Rafe has just bought the Barlow place in the idyllic little town where he grew up. The place is reputed to be haunted, but Rafe sees a wonderful B&B in his mind's eye when he buys it. He decides to hire the proprietor of the new antiques store, Regan Bishop to furnish the house once it's renovated. Rafe and Regan strike sparks off of each other from the beginning. She's fiesty and independent, and he's all bad boy. He's very sure of his charm, and while he makes her weak in the knees, she's bound and determined not to fall for this rakish, incredibly confident man.

I picked up this book because it was mentioned over at the Smart Bitches as having a good grovel in it. Well, I must have missed that part, because while the hero definitely gets his panties in a bunch about something that I consider to be trivial, he never apologizes for it that I could see. But it was still a highly entertaining read. First, Nora's deftness with man-speak is on full display, as the MacKade brothers offer a lovely array of hero types. All relatively alpha (so Miss Kati is happy), but also different types. I enjoyed the sparks from the hero and heroine, and the heroine makes what I would call the BRG (big romantic gesture) toward the end of the book, which the hero reciprocates unexpectedly. The book also introduces an interesting secondary storyline about a battered woman named Cassie Dolin who is the reason why I read the second MacKade book. For a fun and entertaining taste of some of Nora Roberts best strengths as an author, The Return of Rafe MacKade is a great recommendation. Final grade: B


I picked up The Heart of Devin MacKade because I was interested to see his heroine, Cassie Dolin, who is introduced in the first book as a victim of domestic violence, get her HEA. Cassie married Joe Dolin young and stupidly. Joe is pretty much a good for nothing, who drinks too much, gets fired from even the most menial of jobs, and knocks his wife around for anything and everything. In the first MacKade book, The Return of Rafe MacKade, Cassie finally presses charges against Joe for battery and begins divorce precedings. In The Heart of Devin MacKade, it's a year later. Cassie is now the operator of Barlow House, the B&B that Rafe was renovating. She lives there with her two small children, Connor and Emma. She's been adored by all of the MacKade brothers all of her life. But Devin MacKade, the town sherriff has had a special place in his heart for her forever. But Devin doesn't want to make any moves that will scare Cassie. She's been victimized and treated horribly, and she's just getting her life together. But he's so in love with her he can't see straight, and she doesn't even know it. One day, after Devin does Cassie a favor, she reaches up and kisses him. Just a quick kiss, like one she'd give any of his brothers for helping her. But that kiss turns into something more, and now Cassie is seeing Devin in a new way, a romantic way. Is she ready to spread her wings and give love another chance?

Oh man do I love this book! First, Devin just about my favorite hero type - the caregiver. He's strong and tough and patient as all get out. He's willing to wait and pine rather than rush this sweet damaged woman he adores into something that would scare her. So steadfastly, he visits, he helps her, he loves her children (and they love him) and soon, one impulsive kiss has her looking at him in a different way. Devin is just about all charm. He's thoughtful and kind, but has an impressive temper. His needs and wants battle constantly with his wish to do the right thing. And while his concious prevails, it's finally Cassie who pushes him to make a move. There's little I love more than romances where one character has been in love with another forever. And this story is so poignant and lovely. Nora doesn't rush Cassie into bouncing back immediately from the domestic violence she's experienced. She makes her grow slowly and tentatively. And watching her realize how lucky she is to have Devin is just a lovely, lovely way to spend an afternoon. Final grade: A

Reading order:
Book 1 - The Return of Rafe MacKade
Book 2 - The Pride of Jared MacKade
Book 3 - The Heart of Devin MacKade
Book 4 - The Fall of Shane MacKade

Thursday, November 5, 2009

Noddin' My Head Like Yeah...

As chronicled earlier, I've been sick with the oink this week. The first three days involved a lot of me moving from my chair, to the couch, to the bed and feeling generally ick and watching a ton of movies on On Demand. I've now slept through: Miss Pettigrew Lives For a Day, Apollo 13, The Mummy Returns and several other movies I've seen 10,000 times. Anyway, yesterday I finally turned the corner. Although I still have quite a *lovely* singing voice, I'm at least feeling a bit more human and was cleared to return to work tomorrow. This oink thing isn't kidding around, it'll kick your ass.

So yesterday, I kind of reengaged with the interwebz, and found all kinds of fun stuff around.

First is Katiebabs posting about the way she reviews. Now, Kate's post is interesting enough, she recently had an author take exception to a B- grade, which is a pretty decent grade from Kate. But no, it's more the comments to the posting that caught my attention. I do think it's true that it's just never a good idea for an author to react to a review, especially defensively. Now, I love it when an author pops by this blog to say "hey thanks for the review" or, vice versa, "Sorry to hear the book didn't work for you." I may be limited, but I think those are about the only two appropriate responses for authors, other than to clarify a scene or question about a book. On Kate's blog, another author chimed in to say it's tough to have something you created denigrated.

I'm sympathetic to the notion that being given negative feedback to anything you've created is a hard thing. I'm not an author, but I am an event planner, and it's tough to have someone give you negative feedback on something you've been putting together for months and months (or even years). But you know, it comes with the territory.

Second, over at Smart Bitches, they are talking about the grovel. It's well known that the alpha hero is my favorite kind of romance hero. And part and parcel of many an alpha hero is the ability to act like a giant asshat, and then to have to grovel for forgiveness. My go-to author for the excellent grovel is Judith McNaught. No one gives grovel like McNaught. One of the books that came up in the course of the comments was Double Standards, which I have on my keeper shelf, but probably hadn't cracked in about ten years. Oh man, did I forget how much I love, love, love this totally dated little contemp. Completely autocratic hero; sweet-natured, loving heroine; hero fucks up, acts like a big dumb dummy; and man, the grovel is on! My only quibble is I'd have liked a bit more HEA for the two, the curtain kind of goes down directly after the grovel. But hey, it still was a totally satisfying way to spend an afternoon. Another book that was brought up as giving good grovel is The Return of Rafe MacKade by Nora Roberts. Guess what? Yes, I happen to have that one too, and it's how I'll be spending my afternoon. I feel a grovel-glom coming on. Do you have any suggestions for me on good grovel books? I'd love to hear them.

What's going on with y'all? Catch me up!

PS - Yes, that is a reference to the latest Miley Cyrus earworm, which I shamefully CANNOT get out of my head. Pathetic, yes, but also true.

PPS - Happy Birthday to the truly adorable Charlotte, AKA Lusty Reader!! She's one of my favorite new webfriends. Happy day, girl! Make Mr. Charlotte take you someplace fabulous to celebrate.

Monday, November 2, 2009

In Which Kati Contracts the Oink


Yes, it's true, after spending two hours at the Minute Clinic yesterday, I have a confirmed case of H1N1. SIGH.

I'm home from work for at least the next couple of days. We'll see how we end up. Right now I feel like death on a cracker.